A Story behind… age of 5 Reuven start to throw tantrum and demand toys when passing around the kiddy palace.

on this nite, we pass by the kiddy palace and he will throw and keep begging and use all his way to ask for the toys. he is asking for the micky and the roadster and i know that he like to own it very much. however last week just brought a number of toys for him. i know i got to guide him.

he cry very loud as things are not getting his way… i talk to him nicely but still he is demanding. i know all he want is a toy…

 

I explain to Reuven …

Daddy : sometime when we grow up , we might not get the things we want, and you can’t expect everything you request, daddy will get for you. and last week you just get a numbers of new toys from yeye and nana and Er bo rite? toys are expensive, you can’t always see what you want and expect that you can bring it home.  we buy alot of toys for you rite? you see your room…

with these explanation and angry with him about what is acceptable and not acceptable, he started to tune. he give me a hug after that…

 

P.S for Reuven.

Daddy look at it not just a toy but in a bigger perspective. in life we must learn to accept disappointment, not everything in life is smooth sailing and everything we want, may not be as what we think. so what i am giving is some tiny disappointment lesson. you will be grow to patient for result and won’t be so hard on yourself when next time things are not going your way. Buying a toy is easy, but moulding you are a tough route not just you and is also for daddy. 🙂 love u my boy 🙂